Journey with nobody………………………………….

It is a tale of a girl who was born to a middle class parents. She had no siblings and was alone always. Life did not show mercy on her. She had no cousins, friends to play with. She grew up with bitterness and the feeling of being all alone.


Definitely, one can expect what thoughts would run in the mind of any person who is in this situation. She was an introvert, people bullied her, and victim of abuse when she was a child. Can you imagine the trauma that she underwent.


This is common, most of them who under face these situations never disclose these incidents. They grow with a negative mind, lock themselves in a nutshell and before submissive in nature.


Even when she grew as a young lady, she had no friends to hang out with, she would cry alone and not letting her parents know what she was dealing with. People would make use of her being timid and her helplessness. But she was enduring all this. She would ask the lord, why me? Why don’t I have anyone? But never received an answer.


Time passed by she settled she married, but even in her married life did not find peace, she was dominated, abused, and not respected. Although she wanted to do the best for her family. With time she decided to break the marriage and live alone. Her struggle was immense, with no money or job she walked out of the house.

She had her parents support regained the courage and began her new life. being a timid person she struggled to fit into the world that is filled with different people. Not knowing how to cope, she would weep and pray for courage. As we know, time is a healer. She began to move on and unskilled her knowledge and skills. Took up a job and now is happy with what God has blessed her. Even now she has no best friends she is happy with her new husband and family.


I’m sure this is not a new story that you are reading, many of you must have faced similar situation. But what I would like to share is that we as human beings face different situations in our lives. We are lucky if we have someone to guide us, motivate us, and to stand by us. Think of the those who don’t have anyone, they still fight alone.
What I would like to say to all my readers out there. It’s true we can’t do anything much for such people. But we can definitely include them in our prayers.


Definitely, one can expect what thoughts would run in the mind of any person who is in this situation. She was an introvert, people bullied her, she was victim of abuse when she was a child. Can you imagine the trauma that she underwent.
This is common, most of them who under face these situations never disclose these incidents. They grow with a negative mind, lock themselves in a nutshell and before submissive in nature.


Even when she grew as a young lady, she had no friends to hang out with, she would cry alone and not letting her parents know what she was dealing with. People would make use of her being timid and her helplessness. But she was enduring all this. She would ask the lord, why me? Why don’t I have anyone? But never received an answer.

Time passed she settled in her life, but even in her married life did not find peace, she was dominated, abused, and not respected. Although she wanted to do the best for her family. With time she decided to break the marriage and live alone. Her struggle was immense, with no money or job she walked out of the house. She regained the courage and began her new life with her parents support. She faced a lot of challenges during this time. Figuring out a way to cope up, at times she would weep and pray for courage.

As we all know, time is a healer. She began to move on and unskilled her knowledge and skills. Took up a job and now is happy with what God has blessed her. Even now she has no best friends she is happy with her new husband and family.


I’m sure this is not a new story that you are reading, many of you must have faced similar situation. But what I would like to share is that we as human beings face different situations in our lives. We are lucky if we have someone to guide us, motivate us, and to stand by us. Think of the those who don’t have anyone, they still fight alone.
What I would like to say to all my readers out there. It’s true we can’t do anything much for such people. But we can definitely include them in our prayers.

Remember, your life is precious and you need to be strong and focused to fight all odds and succeed in life. Time once gone never comes back so get up now, and take an oath that you will keep yourself happy and take care.

Signing off
Hema Aloysius

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